Being asked to attend to the guest book at a wedding is not only
an honor, it's a wonderful compliment. You are the person chosen
to greet the guests and ensure that they sign the guest book --
so the couple thinks very highly of you. They put their trust in
you be responsible, dress and act appropriately, and make their
guests comfortable.
Responsibilities
The following are all of the guest book attendant duties, some
required, some are additional tasks you may be asked to perform.
Don't feel overwhelmed, because overall, it's fun to meet and
greet. You'll not only become better acquainted with family
members, you'll be more comfortable at the reception.
Wear Proper Attire
Traditionally, guest book attendants are female but times are
changing. Whether you're male or female, ask the bride about
color and style preferences. Some couples will want you to
coordinate, others aren't too particular. It often depends on
how formal or casual the wedding is.
Be Punctual
You'll need to be there to attend to the guest book but you
should arrive early to put on your corsage and get organized.
You may be asked to hand out other's corsages and boutonnieres
too, and assist them with sticky part of pinning them on.
Assure Guest Book is Signed by Guests
The most important duty is to greet the guests and make sure
that they sign the guest book. This means all of the
participants too, including the attendants and the bride and
groom's parents. Often, it's convenient to catch them when they
arrive early and have them sign it before the other guests begin
arriving.
Collect Gifts
Not all guests will be able to attend the reception. They may
bring a gift or card to the ceremony site. Take it off their
hands to transport later on the the reception site.
Hand Out Wedding Favors
After the ceremony, you may be needed to hand out
favors such as
rice or bubbles to the guests for when the newly married couple
emerge. Ask in advance if this will be necessary and find out
where the wedding favors are stored.
Transport Items
Typically, all of the items on the guest book table will need to
be transported to the reception site and re-set up. You don't
have to be in the receiving line, so after you hand out favors
and pack up, move on to the reception hall and set up before
guests arrive.